There is a version of set theory according to which there are two flavors (types? categories?) of elementhood relation, and if it's ultimately coherent, it does offer a solution to Russell's paradox (with perhaps paradoxical consequences of its own).
But so imagine that being-an-intensional-element-of is one such relation, with being-an-extensional-element-of is another. (More finely, something is extensionally an element if it is intensionally an element, but not vice versa.) So we would not ask just, "Is there a set of all noncircular sets?" and, "Is that set not an element of itself?" but, "Is that set an intensional or extensional element of itself?" So that it could be self-intensional but not self-extensional, or self-extensional but then only indirectly self-intensional (perhaps this idea means a broader ramification of the auxiliary elementhood "types").
So to say (for i and e = intensional, extensional):
- ∀ab∃X
- If any a ∉i any b
- Then a ∈e X
- So if X ∉i X, then X ∈e X?
Alternatively (maybe more reasonable):
- ∀ab∃X
- If any a ∉e any b
- Then a ∈i X
- So if X ∉e X, then X ∈i X?