I own (have owned) multiple ones. All of them are a compromise in that the act of lowering the volume creates a lot of back pressure, creating changes in how you play. I have found that the cup-style mutes either don't lower volume enough, or create too much back pressure.
I personally use the Stone-Lined (H&M Manny Klein); least amount of back pressure for the volume reduction and a design that's been around forever. However, I'm just as inclined to use a harmon style mute without stem which also lowers volume and mellows the sound enough that I can practice in a hotel room (as long as its not late at night) without near the amount of back pressure.
The electronic ones (Yamaha silent) allow listening through headphones and mixing in backing tracks which is a nice trick and I have friends that use them with great satisfaction. I haven't purchased one of them because of the cost, but when I consider the amount I've spent on mutes I should have by this point.
There are a number of boutique mute makes and I can't keep track of them all. You might want to get a conversation going on trumpetherald.com where there is an active community on target with this discussion.